Been using J4L.com for about 6 months now after getting tired of all the hookup apps out there. What I really appreciate is how they actually verify profiles - saves so much time not dealing with fake accounts! The international aspect is great too, I've had some really meaningful conversations with people from different countries. Sure, the interface isn't as flashy as some newer apps, but honestly that's kinda refreshing. People there seem genuinely interested in finding something real rather than just swiping for fun.